Happy Sunday Reader,

Today’s question is one I get all the time:
​“How do I start?”

Answer:
​Many of you have asked it before, and you're still asking.

If you’re still asking “How do I start?” try this question instead:

"What's stopping me from starting?"

Write down every way you’re stopping yourself from changing:

IMPORTANT: This isn't just an intellectual exercise.

• Let it marinate.
• Look at the list until you feel it in your body.
• Notice how it shows up in your choices.

Change begins when you see, clearly, how you're keeping yourself from it.

And then, you choose something different.

Love,
Sarita

P.S. Change requires you to be in an intimate relationship with your fear.

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